The first act of sexual intercourse by an individual is commonly considered within many cultures to be an important personal milestone. Being sexually active can mean different things to different people, and can include different activities with partners that are the opposite sex, the same sex, or both. Sex is about giving and receiving pleasure in a way that is comfortable for both participants.

The term virgin originally only referred to sexually inexperienced women, but has evolved to encompass a range of definitions, as found in traditional, modern, and ethical concepts Heterosexual individuals may or may not consider loss of virginity to occur only through penile-vaginal penetration, while people of other sexual orientations often include oral sex, anal sex or mutual masturbation in their definitions of losing one’s virginity.The occasion is at times seen as the end of innocence, integrity, or purity, and the sexualization of the individual.

For centuries virginity was prized above of all when it came to women. In an evolutionary stand-point it was prized because this was seeming confirmation that the husbands spawn was indeed hes.
For both men and women, losing their virginity has become a significantly better experience over the course of time. Chastity does not influence ones social status anymore therefore sexual experimentation for virgins is not a taboo.

aroused by mistakes or rules being broken.

Still there are people wishing for a virgin or less experienced partner, in fact a great majority of women and men are aroused by their partner having less sexual knowledge or competence than themselves. This bolsters their self-esteem and makes them feel more secure in the relationship. They are aroused by mistakes or rules being broken.

As with less experience comes naivety, it is more likely that a virgin will get emotionally attached to their first time sexual partner.Although people fantasize about intercourse with a virgin, to avoid the pressure of emotional commitment, most people stick to the fantasy of it.

Virgin fantasy: innocence as the flame of desire

It is the young innocence not the presence of the hymen that is a draw to romanticizing virgins.
Taking a someones virginity as a sexual fantasy may be an ego boost too. Imagine being someones first and taking their innocence, might be the pleasure of having someone that you can teach and form to your likes. Some people who fantasize about chastity are longing for their partner’s shyness the most. However, there is an aspect more motivating than those mentioned above, most common reason for fantasizing about being someone’s first is that of bookmarking yourself in the annexes of ones mind forever.